This CD does surprisingly well on a very difficult topic to teach, banter. Naturally, I’m a playful tease, but even with that personality type, I found the tips to still be helpful.
Banter is not a display, you are not telling a joke. It’s what you do when you’re a kid, when you’re having fun with your family. You set the frame that you care about someone, but not so much to put them on a pedestal, it’s a way to joke that you like them.
Examples:
“You’re a republican, aren’t you?”
“I don’t know who your boyfriend is, but he’s not spanking you enough.”
“You look familiar, have we had sex?”
Opening with banter (Indirect Game):
“OMG I love girls with glasses, wait where you in the library on Saturday?”
“That drink goes with your outfit well, but your friend here, she needs like a chocolate martini or something.”
Newbie:
“OMG, you are such a dork.”
“You are just so cute… I’m going to put you in my pocket and take you home… See if my roommates will let you me keep you… You’re housebroken right?”
“OMG, you guys are such a trouble, I should probably get a note from my mom.”
The more innappropriate, the better. Quiet is a bad reaction. A good reaction is “I can’t believe you said that!”
Banter amongst men is masked affection. You cannot tease your girlfriend in the same manner. Sarcasm is poking fun where someone is weak. Banter is poking fun where someone is strong. You have to play nicer with girls. Banter is nice. Tease where they are confident.
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