When I got into this, I re-evaluated everything I thought I knew about dating. AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps) do the following things therefore I do not: buy girls drinks, take girls on dates, bring girls presents, and the list goes on. You use this as a tool to change your mindset, but then […]
Archive for March, 2006
Worrying about coming off as an AFC is a very AFC thing to do
Published by tadpole March 29th, 2006 in general. 3 CommentsI’ve been debating about when to tell girls I’m a PUA, and I’ve come to a conclusion. I’m putting it right out there. I’m not going to introduce myself and say “Hey I’m tadpole and I’m a PUA.” But I’m certainly not going to hide it. Eventually I’m going to […]
I was reading elle the other week and I ran across this great quote from Kelis (the girl who sings that milkshake song). Now, I realize in the same sentence I mentioned I was reading elle and that I enjoyed a quote from a woman who sings “my milkshake brings all the boys to the […]
I went on a rampage tonight of making up bullshit pickup techniques. Once again, this hasn’t been field tested, and is pure bullshit out of my mouth. You’ve been warned.
This one I call the artificial kiss close. To test a girl’s buying temperature, move in like you’re going to kiss her. If she closes her […]
I came up with this bullshit tonight. It is not field tested, I just want to share it. Sifu has been having some problems with a girl, and she will be moving very soon. To which I replied…
“Time for an artificial birthday”
The artificial birthday is a birthday you invent to give her extra reason to […]
At what point do you tell a girl you are a pua?
Published by tadpole March 20th, 2006 in general. 6 CommentsI’ve been wrestling with this question for a bit… at what point do you tell your girl you’re a pua?
If your relationship is physical / one night, then I wouldn’t ever tell her. If you like someone though, you are developing a strong connection and you want to engage in a relationship, when […]
Ok, I stuck it out. I, like big send, realized that this first affirmation…
I now fall asleep and wake up easily at any time, at any place, and nothing gets in my way
… wasn’t a very good one. I did learn a few things.
70 times is a lot of time to write the same thing
The […]
Well, I’ve been keeping up with my 70 x 7, but don’t think the last two days are a good judgement. I stayed up late, and went to sleep right away. I got up at reasonable time after about 7-8 hours of sleep. I think regardless of what kind of mental block […]
part I
So, this is the morning after the second 70 x 7 session. I woke up a few minutes before my alarm went off, but who knows if that is anything because my alarm clock has a “simulated dawn”. It slowly turns a little light on for 60 minutes. So I could’ve been woken by […]
I was up late last night because I couldn’t fall asleep. Inspired by bigsend, I decided to give 70 x 7 a try. Basicly you write an affirmation followed by your thoughts 70 times, 7 days in a row. You can read his original post and detailed instructions here.
I stole his first affirmation:
“I now fall […]

